
I've got two kids. Sometimes they don't get along, and occasionally they say something mean to the other. When that happens, the hurt child does not move out.
I'm not trying to be insensitive here. I have seen the pain caused in churches when people hurt other people. And it happens too often. We lose trust in one another, and we decide someone is not acting Christlike and so we are tempted to move on, and either hang out alone, or find the nice people.
Consider this story from Matthew (15.21-28), where the gentile woman asks Jesus to heal her daughter. At this point Jesus calls her a dog. Probably in many churches a good enough reason to leave I'm guessing.
But the woman does not go, instead she plays along, and says even the dogs get scraps from the table. Jesus then says her faith is great, and heals her daughter.
Some of us need greater faith to survive church. May yours be sufficient. Because it turns out, God needs you.